这一生，我们需要。。。

This meaningful statement hope to share with people who see my blog:-

I asked for strength and god gave me difficulties to make me strong;
I asked for wisdom and god gave me problems to solve;
I asked for prosperity and god gave me brawn and brain to work;
I asked for courage and god gave me dangers to overcome;
I asked for love and god gave me troubled people to help;
I asked for favours and god gave me opportunities;
I received nothing i wanted but everything i needed.

我们不只是只有吃喝玩乐而已。

这一生，我们需要做的是：

给父母一个荣耀；
给孩子一个榜样；
给子孙一个保障；
给朋友一个希望；
给自己一个成就。

只有安利找得到。

买一件新衣服，可以开心一天；
买一辆新车子，可以开心一星期；
买一间新房子，可以开心一年；

帮助朋友成功，改变生活，改变未来，可以开心一辈子。

不要為了一個你討厭的人,而離開許多你喜歡的人

不要為了一個你討厭的人,而離開許多你喜歡的人
快樂的笑容帶給你一生的幸福
討厭...就不理他呀....別放在心理就好了呀...
和討厭的人一起工作是要學習的~~

說的也是哦
人在外工作
每天要見好多人
和好多人說話
一定會討厭的人存在
真的有的人是因為某人而離開
但是真的很不值得
自己才是最重要的人不是嗎
為自己離開或留下
不要為別人
不要為了 一個討厭的人,而離開許多你喜歡的人
今天聽到的小故事。
來演講的老師講了以前一個學生的故事：
做作業分組，十二個人一組，
他來要求老師說他要換組別。
為什麼？
因為他很討厭其中的一個人。
老師就讓他換了。
不過問了他說：其他的組員你也都討厭嗎？
學生：不會啊，都滿喜歡的。
老師：那這個人，在你生命中重不重要？
那個學生答：重要個鬼啦！討厭死他了！
「但是十個好朋友留不住你，你卻為了他一個人離開。」
這個人，重不重要呢？
如果在生命裡的重量沒那麼重的話，又為什麼要這麼在乎他呢？
與其為了一個不重要的人離開，
還不如為了十個喜歡你，你也喜歡的朋友留下。
還講了個有意思的話呢，我挺喜歡這個老師的。
每個人都很荒誕的會認為「全世界的每個人都應該喜歡我。」
但是如同自己有討厭的人跟喜歡的人一樣，
自己也會被人討厭和被人喜歡。
和討厭的人一起工作，一起唸書..........是要學習的。

讨厌一个人的时候，可以怎样面对？

人不可能十全十美，是凡人总会有些地方会惹着别人。

即便你圆滑无比，毫无球刺，也总有人看你不顺眼，这就是人性的微妙。

现在人与人之间关系已被看成为一种艺术，里面有着太多太多的学问，俗话说不经事则不长智，每个人都在努力寻求一种捷径，能使人与人之间的沟通更简单。

这条路在哪里？

如果讨厌的人是你的伙伴 ，如果两个人性格都像烈火，那一遇到摩擦或争执的时候就很容易发生爆炸，最后的结果只能是两败俱伤而已，这样对谁都没有好处。可如果有一方肯退一步，愿意去扮演水系的角色，那么结果势必会比较乐观一点，相信“火”终究会被“水”收服。

也许你每天都会接触一个陌生的人，记住，不管别人对他的评价如何，你千万不要带任何的偏见去待他，你可以假设他是友善的，这样他才可能成为你的朋友。

在职场。如果讨厌的人是你的老板...

就是在意见上如果和老板有分歧，或他哪些地方看你不顺眼，注意，在任何时候你一定要给老板台阶下，毕竟他是你的老板，所以绝对不要在大庭广众之下和他发生口角，哪怕责任都在他。你可以回来的时候再跟他说你不开心啊，不痛快之类的。要学会怎么样让老板感觉你在给他台阶下，这样老板才会觉得你会是个懂得察言观色的人。

面对讨厌的人，你无法理解的人，关系僵持的人，你可以尝试：
1、站在对方的角度考虑问题，多看看别人的优点而不是死咬缺点不放，学会宽容。

2、尊重对方，关心对方，多赞扬对方，不要不舍得开金口。

3、和攻击性较强的人相处，对方的话不必放在心上，除了侮辱人格时应义正严词外。

4、在关系僵持或恶化的时候，一定要主动表示友好，不要爱于面子、难为情。

5、不要来硬的，要投其所好，如果对方喜欢搓一顿，那么就私下请他搓上一顿，改善关系。

6、人际沟通的能力很重要，人际适应的能力更为重要，学会境平心造。

讨厌这个人的时候可以几种方式去面对他：

第一，见面还是打招呼。不要以为这个是虚伪的做法，不管你是否讨厌这个人但是最起码此刻这个人是没有做什么让你讨厌的事情的。所以，不妨也打个招呼，深呼吸一下，可能自己也发觉自己没那么讨厌他了。

第二，尽量不直接接触。如果一般没有什么特别重要的事情尽量不去直接面对这个人，万一实在是非他不可的，也可以委托别人帮你转达你的的意思，以免发生不必要的尴尬。

第三，把自己讨厌这个人的理由都写出来，仔细分析一下自己为什么讨厌他，在他身上出现的问题是否也在别人身上出现过，自己到底是因为什么才讨厌他。

第四，把他约出来，然后委婉的告诉他，在哪些方面是你不太认同的，可能他听了以后才恍然大悟，说不定可能成为很好的朋友。

其实人与人之间不是天生就有什么过节，往往是因为误会没有消除而产生的，自己最好能够抱着一种宽容的心态对待别人，这样你自己也会觉得很快乐。

Jong Theng Bachelor Night

After my carnival, go home and have a nap.
Because got next round at night, today is our 班长JongTheng bachelor night.
So decide to go clubbing and crazy crazy~~~wohoo..
I really long time didn't go clubbing since college life.

So we have 3 car pool together from bodoh theng house.
They choosed "RUM JUNGLE".
I never been there before.
Before we reached, we really have long queue at bukit bintang.
Very crowded, and many type of people.
Today is my first nightlife since college indeed.

We reached the entrance, the stupid guard only checked girls IC.
Ma fan dao si...
Wow, the waiter serves us to a table just beside the speakers.
erm... you can imagine lor.
Here is the part of club. With dark skin DJ.

So the alcohol, coke, green tea for mix and ice is start coming.


At first, we all feel like old liao.
Everyone just standing at the table, seeing each other.
This is our first photo inside the club.

Sooner, the crowd is keep coming in.
They all started to get into the environment.
Get high!
You can see from the photo, no need i describe. Haha!
This KL just start to drink, his whole face like BAO GONG already.



Do you see the hand grab ice and put inside people cup?
Haha... at first, we all use the "GIAP".
After a while, all dont care liao... messy...

Come on, yum yum yum seng!!! to bodoh theng.

Who is bodoh theng? Dunno?
Is the middile guy with white t-shirt.

Around 2am, you can see a dead body in this photo? Haha!!
Let u see before and after.

This is the before lor...haha.

Can u see the buluh, the cane in the middle.
When we go off, the buluh is already patah and spoilt by us already.
Kesian, because it is too blockage la...

And i go home with a wet backside shirt.
Because ai.... a big guy take the bottle want to hantam a girl head.
They are almost fighting.
And i try to escape, and the table push, all the cup alcohol, coke...
all phew to my back...
Song ar!!
What a 'memorable' night.
Congratulations to theng anyway!

TA Carnival

Today I go with a gang of friends to a carnival for donation to orphan.
Today is a very very hot day.
We go and buy the coupon and use the coupon to buy thing or play games.
This is the organiser, Katie, who is my friend too.


We are the first batch arrived.
Second batch arrive with my brother-in-law kids.

We walked around and see got apa to buy.
Have t-shirt, souvinier, accesories, games, bags, food, drinks, etc..

Finally we decide to get the 'lollipop towel".
Very kawaii one leh... ^_^

This is Xiao Chou to entertain those children and orphan.
I wish get the balloon too, but paiseh......it for kids.
Not for 'auntie', haha so just forget it.

Ok, we feel hungry and hot.....

Ck buy dunno that food call, "ketupat"??? no...

Amy want to curi makan?? haha...so calvin look...

Eh, we keep going to 'shopping'.

The kids show their talent to play the colours.

Their hard works after an hour. Very pretty oh.

Give them a clap hand =)

And this handsome boy win a high quality notebook with 82 points of games.

Finally around 4pm

Deng deng deng!! Our final winner is Carol!! =D

You see she carry whole box of snacks and take back for her collic lor.

I want!! =D

Hopefully everyone is enjoying in this carnival with a kind-hearted.

Thank you. =D

October Exam finished!!

Finally at the end of Oct 2008, my CPA exam finished.
I was "trap" at home for the whole month, didnt step out of house.
I almost become "yellow face po", my husband said.
Haha!!
After the day, my life start to be fullest and many 节目to go.

Dinner at Uptown

Today morning again, having another facial workshop.
And, Sf signed up a very nice friend, also same nickname as me, haha!!
Until 5.30pm, we just back home and rest a while.

Ard 8.30pm, we are waiting calvin and phei to fetch us for dinner together.
After many discussion and idea of where to eat, final decision is go uptown makan "Steven corner" steak house, Teluk Intan Zhu Chang Fen and the spicy fried "BALITONG".
Have you ever heard this name? Haha, yes? then i sua gu liao. haha, No? same as me lor.

After our dinner, we order this Balitong to makan.
Oh I see, is this one. I called it "LUO".
I didn't eat this for so long ya.
You have to suck it out gou gou li. haha.

When i was sucked so happily, suddenly bite something hard.

I saw a orange leg. Walao, is this creature coming out from the shell.

eh... it dead liao. Just i too geng, suck it out and korek korek it out. So geli~~

This crab so stupid la, it stay inside people shell, but kena goreng together liao.

After that, Kah Heng joined us for dinner too.

Kah Heng suddenly say a "joke".

Eat this Balitong can practice how to "Da K Lun"..... sweating.

After he told this, he eat the first one, he is coughing. Haha!! The chilli makes it.

So we all laugh at him lor, no experience on DKL. Haha!!

Later 11pm, Chun Li also joined us lor.

Haha, those 4 guys take turn to tell a motivation story for practice.

So happy and funny together.

Ding Dong!! 12 midnight lor, we just go back home separately lor.

Jiun Jiun Birthday

Today is Jia Jiun birthday.
Nowadays, the children are so "Heng Fuk" ya.
After our facial workshop, we went to Puchong for celebration.
You see the table, Sooo many nice presents and gifts.
Haha~ you see the Carlton racket? ar, and the green colour bottle is bubble blower.
Yeah! four of us bought for him.

Wow, so many ultraman and spiderman toys.
And, the delicious strawberry Mickey mouse cake.

Haha! His father wants him to sing 3 songs and tell a story.
Coz he is recording down. Haha!! So geng!

Studying for CPA exam

Struggling~~~

想念他们

我的父母前几天出国去游玩了。
剩下我们姐弟。
哈哈！开始想念他们了。
没有人煮饭，洗衣，晒衣，做家务。

幸好还有一些很好,很可爱的朋友们陪陪我们，吃吃东西，聊聊天。
今晚，就和一位好朋友去吃晚餐，还有专车接送， 哈哈。

My new mobile phone

Today I buy a new mobile phone - Nokia E66 with white cover for myself.

My 1st mobile is Red Nokia and my existing mobile is Black Samsung.

Now coming soon charging battery is White Nokia.

Haha! New year new thing new hope mar. =p

New mobile new motivation.

I also buy a small gift for my husband too.

So we all can restart again and go for new dream!

继续！ 加油！ 不要放弃！

My wedding photoshooting confirmed

http://weddingcouture.com.my/index.html

This is our wedding photoshooting place.
Today just decided to choose this bridal shop.
It is recommended by a very nice sister, siew yik.
She is very helpful and help us to get alot of thing in a package.
Hahaha! love her very much.

We will go out of Malaysia to photoshooting some different scene, that Malaysia tak ada punya.
The person in charge, CAT, is a professional too and she pandai cakap.
And she "sponsor" us too. :p
She let me try on all the pretty gown, and all nice.
SO that's why lor~~

At least this one has gao dim.
Just do next thing.

After that, we continue our appointment of our "L.A" dream again for whole day.
At night, two plane kena put.
So we go home and watch Lee C W play badminton.
Although he can't win Gold medal, but he get the Silver medal.
I think he is very very Geng already.
So, Malaysia masih boleh.

Watch Wall-E

After my blood test, we goto visit a show room at Mutiara Bukit Jalil.

The house is so nice and pretty.

Four of us love it, it cost around Rm700,000.

We are considering to purchase this house, but we have to ask our parents see whether the Fengshui, ok anot. And, I met my old school mate, Fang X.D, over there, he is working there. I should say he is standby there. hahaha.

After 2pm, we rushed back to have our facial class. Everyone is waiting us.

Elaine, Phei and I are the organiser, so we are abit nervous but we think we are doing good job for the first time. Hahaha! :-p

And, for the first time, this time got around 30 person and suprisingly is 70% of learners are GUYS! SO funny.

Phew, 4 hours passby and everything going smoothly.

Ck and I sent my auntie back to Kepong and having dinner with them.

We rushed to Time Square for movie at 9.25pm with Calvin, Amy, Benny, Jun and Hanshi for the very very cute and funny movie - WALL E. Grab this from my friend blog. Hoho! Thx buddy.

I love animation cartoon always. This Wall E is so cute and sweet and funny.

My friend, Benny bought the Eve patung, so called "Espring look" before we go to movies.

Today was the busy day with work and thing.

Blood test

Today four of us, twins, phei and I go to path lab to do blood test.
We have done the 10 hours puasa before the next day.
I have never do blood test before.
So, I am so panic and hungry. hahaha.

I am the first one to go in among us.
I told the girl that I am scare and asked her whether painful anot.
hahaha!

I am so lucky!!
When the injection goes in my blood vessel, its feel pain for 1 second.
Suddenly a woman who bring a child come over and ask "excuse me, where should i put my urine bottle?" "So stupid, she didn't see people doing "something"?" I keep scolding inside my heart.

Coming on with "aiyo, need to inject again, your blood vessel is moving, I can't get it"
Oh, my god!! I almost pengsan.
Should buy 4D today.
Then, I let the girl injection my another hand.
At last, I success to get the blood liao.
But my hand feel pain sikit and "Boh Lat".

So when i am walking out, three of them laugh at me.
Coz my both hand also got the sticker.

Nevermind la, just treat it like donate blood.
At least we know and has the 安心 for our next generation and our healthy too.

My hand got two hole. woohoo....

试婚纱？

今天早上保荐了一个很想改变生活的女生，她说了一句话：“我要用RM85来咸鱼反身”。
让我觉得这个生意让许多人看到希望啊。越做越开心，越来越多朋友。

过后，我赶去一间婚纱店。
你想什么？？
不是我试婚纱啦，我去陪我的一对朋友试婚纱，选婚纱。
他们要结婚了。
去拿一些经验也是好的。迟早也是要轮到我们。

帮忙我的朋友脱了又穿，穿了又脱。
选了又选，试了又试。
这样就过了5小时，我都脱鞋子了。
到晚上8pm，然后他们请我吃肉骨茶。哈哈哈！
有口福。
不过，帮我的好朋友没有计较的啦。

看见他们幸福的样子，真好。
不过，我们也要筹备了。哈哈哈！！
好多人要陪我去试婚纱，我的好朋友还真不错啦。
还是他们要去偷看我的“走光”。哈哈哈！！我也真无聊。

不过，原来注册和筹备婚礼是不同感觉呢，有一种开心，幸福的感觉。
但是，我的真正度蜜月一定要gao dim Los Angelos啦。
对我来说才是最完美不过了。
加油！！
你们会支持我的，对吧。
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Period pain#$^^%&*&#% Hate

Today have a bad whole day.
Supposed I had alot of plan for a nice Saturday, suddenly unbearable pain coming, sweating, fainting~~~ I thought i am going to die and go hospital.

Don't know what happened, just pain.
I become a prawn, a pale, wet prawn.

My mom helped me take vitamins, protein, hot water, urut.
Apapun keluar to reduce my pain.

Lucky after 1 hour, pain reduce to minimum and I also fall asleep.
Ck is rushing back from warehouse, but I am okie liao.

So today I become a patient, at home. Sien~~
All my appointment have to cancel, so sorry to them.

Why like that one?
1. Sleep too late every night
2. Makan pedas and cold, mamak last month like buka puasa
3. Dunno~~

Hit Ruby! Mission complete.

Wow, ck and I had make another Ruby volume.
Unbelievable~~
But, the result must thanks to all my business partners as thery are so supportive.
Now, I believed that "Anything happened is coming with good thing", although alot of unhappy and sudden stuff occurred.

This year my Japan trip is unachievable, sad but unless I am still a founder DD la, because the SIP bonus so besar cannot missed it.

And we already discuss and JIAN TAO our fieldwork with Ken and YC.
We know where we do less, need to improve next year and go to Los Angelos ALS with my friends with crazy enjoyment at Disneyland and shopping paradise there. Wohoo~~

有钱？有闲！

已经不知不觉没有工作半年了。
旅行也玩回来了。

每天过着悠闲的生活，偶尔学做甜品，研究菜色。
然后找一下朋友喝茶，最近认识不少新朋友。
送产品给朋友，跟进一下生意伙伴。

生活可以很充实，但是却毫无压力。
今天终于有时间坐下来看看别人的部落格，笑一笑。
写写我的部落格。

明天又是另外一个月。
又要重新出发了。

谢谢你们的生日祝福

非常感动和谢谢你们全部人给我的生日祝福和蛋糕。
我的电话也快爆炸了。
希望我的愿望能够和大家一起分享。
我们一起加油！！

要去免费旅行啦！！

好久没有写我的部落格了。

刚刚考完试，生了几天病。

今天难得空闲在家里听听一些cd，和进修。

也很期待31日5月的旅行去Alaska de Royal Carribean cruise & Vancouver来临.

整整15天的旅行。

不用自费地旅行还是第一次。

还要有东西送的，才开心。

刚开始的‘甜点’就是这些winter time牌子的毛衣啊。

我还以为要换回去的，原来真的是给我们的。

前几天，专为我们开了一场会议，是holiday tour的工作人员来为我们讲解我们的所有行程。

和应该要做些什么。

有什么吃的，玩的，有多少pocket money.

虽然真得很开心兴奋，还没开始去买一些用品。

但是，我和老公还是在很努力的为将来的生活努力。

我们现在的成绩只为了生存，生活。

还没有到达事业和享受生活方式。

所以还是不能怠慢。

人生不能只有奋斗，一定要懂得如何抉择。