Birthday week

This week is a birthday week for me.
So many people is having birthday.

Last Saturday is my 3 sou birthday,
Last Sunday is my husband and his twins birthday.
Monday is my husband 2ge birthday.
Wednesday is my classmate Margaret and my niece birthday.
Thursday is my side line Chua birthday.
Saturday is Jane soong and Ding Ding birthday.

Wow...So this is my husband birthday celebration at detox camp.
We no food allowed so we got another idea.

This is my ah sou and twins lor.

----------------------11.30pm 22/11/08---------------------

We are preparing to give my dear a big surprise.
Since we cannot have a cake.
Very thank you to this lovely kids to help me to act a show.
Haha!!! So ngam, my husband is pengsan and sleeping liao.
We are planning how to cheat my husband come down.

Got two very tall director standing there Duk Gung -- they are civil engineer.
See the words nice anot, shape ok mar. haha.

Dunno what is the words...

Yeah!! Finally gao dim...
Plan to says: ur car stolen?? ur car change to ferrari?? eh...
We decide to call his hp and say anyone of us sick liao and vomit.
If you know him well, he is a very good person and care them very well.
He sure will go over their place and see.
So we hope our plan works.
-----------------------------11.55pm--------------------------
i go back my room and the phone ring.
My husband pick up it in a blur situation.
Suddenly he wake up and wash himself to prepare go there.
haha!! See ~~ it works!!

When he come down, they all stand a row and start to sing~~
Happy birthday to you!
Happy birthday to you!
Happy birthday to ck!
Happy birthday to you!

Haha!! What happen????

Happy birthday! My dear.
Hope you got Gam Dong abit lor... haha.

One blow must gao dim...haha cannot lar.

Thank you you all~~ love u all.

3天2夜排毒营at Selesa Hill

这是我们第三届的健康自然排毒营了。
讲是排毒营拉，其实是去玩多一点，回来后又可以健康一点。一举两得。
所以，星期五晚上，我们大家放工了，就各自迈向我们的营地Selesa Hill Home。

Qiang qiang qiang! This is the place we stay.
Nice? "Wind blow water cold" haha!
是可以一个清静得好地方。
晚上还有一大堆蝉叫声啦。

This is part of our fruits and vegetables for our 果菜汁.
很健康吧。
我们3天里面所喝的分量也许可以等于我们整个月吃的了。

This is our 工作人员reach the place early and is our juice.
Many tpe of bottle. The 'ketchup' bottle is mine. =p

Ok. Our games started on time.
This 3 guys is our games organiser.
Their games really very syok and funny.
You see their face and laugh, you know lor~~ =D

Playing colour and reaction game.

Hmm...this is hor, 'fing tou' games.

Haha!! Must shake until the paper on ur face drop without anything touch.

Challenging indeed~~

This is pretend chicken song.

------------------------2nd day-------------------------

Morning exercise time~~

My mother is teaching warm up and simple Qi Gong~~
Many youngster cannot do it, haha... bones stuck.

Afternoon, we going to water fall and play.

Yeah!! Climb up to the hill.

If you want, you can join our yoga beginner class.

Just so ngam, got a yoga teacher with us to detox.

So she teach us, thank to her.

Guan Yin shape~~ so funny~~

Carol is the very funny girl.

She keeps make me laugh!!

Coz she so suffer...haha. Carol, exercise more oh.

Eh!! Wrong style la, ur leg... careful his...

Erm...this two girls are very expert.

Geng!!

At night, we will have a class to tell u how to take care of ur health.

-----------------------3rd day -- 12am ---------------------------

My dear birthday, we give him a very big surprise.

See next blog lor.

-----------------------3rd day morning check out -----------------

They are my little funny kids and family and friends.

Our sweet friends and new friends.

Of coz need to thanks to this 3 leng lui auntie lor.

They are the organiser of detox camp.

Yeah!! 合作愉快.

Three of us have different character and style and 强项。

So we are 'managing director', 'PR', 'Finance manager'.

Ngam ngam ho.

Anyway, we are having a happy detox. ! Yei!!

这一生，我们需要。。。

This meaningful statement hope to share with people who see my blog:-

I asked for strength and god gave me difficulties to make me strong;
I asked for wisdom and god gave me problems to solve;
I asked for prosperity and god gave me brawn and brain to work;
I asked for courage and god gave me dangers to overcome;
I asked for love and god gave me troubled people to help;
I asked for favours and god gave me opportunities;
I received nothing i wanted but everything i needed.

我们不只是只有吃喝玩乐而已。

这一生，我们需要做的是：

给父母一个荣耀；
给孩子一个榜样；
给子孙一个保障；
给朋友一个希望；
给自己一个成就。

只有安利找得到。

买一件新衣服，可以开心一天；
买一辆新车子，可以开心一星期；
买一间新房子，可以开心一年；

帮助朋友成功，改变生活，改变未来，可以开心一辈子。

不要為了一個你討厭的人,而離開許多你喜歡的人

不要為了一個你討厭的人,而離開許多你喜歡的人
快樂的笑容帶給你一生的幸福
討厭...就不理他呀....別放在心理就好了呀...
和討厭的人一起工作是要學習的~~

說的也是哦
人在外工作
每天要見好多人
和好多人說話
一定會討厭的人存在
真的有的人是因為某人而離開
但是真的很不值得
自己才是最重要的人不是嗎
為自己離開或留下
不要為別人
不要為了 一個討厭的人,而離開許多你喜歡的人
今天聽到的小故事。
來演講的老師講了以前一個學生的故事：
做作業分組，十二個人一組，
他來要求老師說他要換組別。
為什麼？
因為他很討厭其中的一個人。
老師就讓他換了。
不過問了他說：其他的組員你也都討厭嗎？
學生：不會啊，都滿喜歡的。
老師：那這個人，在你生命中重不重要？
那個學生答：重要個鬼啦！討厭死他了！
「但是十個好朋友留不住你，你卻為了他一個人離開。」
這個人，重不重要呢？
如果在生命裡的重量沒那麼重的話，又為什麼要這麼在乎他呢？
與其為了一個不重要的人離開，
還不如為了十個喜歡你，你也喜歡的朋友留下。
還講了個有意思的話呢，我挺喜歡這個老師的。
每個人都很荒誕的會認為「全世界的每個人都應該喜歡我。」
但是如同自己有討厭的人跟喜歡的人一樣，
自己也會被人討厭和被人喜歡。
和討厭的人一起工作，一起唸書..........是要學習的。

讨厌一个人的时候，可以怎样面对？

人不可能十全十美，是凡人总会有些地方会惹着别人。

即便你圆滑无比，毫无球刺，也总有人看你不顺眼，这就是人性的微妙。

现在人与人之间关系已被看成为一种艺术，里面有着太多太多的学问，俗话说不经事则不长智，每个人都在努力寻求一种捷径，能使人与人之间的沟通更简单。

这条路在哪里？

如果讨厌的人是你的伙伴 ，如果两个人性格都像烈火，那一遇到摩擦或争执的时候就很容易发生爆炸，最后的结果只能是两败俱伤而已，这样对谁都没有好处。可如果有一方肯退一步，愿意去扮演水系的角色，那么结果势必会比较乐观一点，相信“火”终究会被“水”收服。

也许你每天都会接触一个陌生的人，记住，不管别人对他的评价如何，你千万不要带任何的偏见去待他，你可以假设他是友善的，这样他才可能成为你的朋友。

在职场。如果讨厌的人是你的老板...

就是在意见上如果和老板有分歧，或他哪些地方看你不顺眼，注意，在任何时候你一定要给老板台阶下，毕竟他是你的老板，所以绝对不要在大庭广众之下和他发生口角，哪怕责任都在他。你可以回来的时候再跟他说你不开心啊，不痛快之类的。要学会怎么样让老板感觉你在给他台阶下，这样老板才会觉得你会是个懂得察言观色的人。

面对讨厌的人，你无法理解的人，关系僵持的人，你可以尝试：
1、站在对方的角度考虑问题，多看看别人的优点而不是死咬缺点不放，学会宽容。

2、尊重对方，关心对方，多赞扬对方，不要不舍得开金口。

3、和攻击性较强的人相处，对方的话不必放在心上，除了侮辱人格时应义正严词外。

4、在关系僵持或恶化的时候，一定要主动表示友好，不要爱于面子、难为情。

5、不要来硬的，要投其所好，如果对方喜欢搓一顿，那么就私下请他搓上一顿，改善关系。

6、人际沟通的能力很重要，人际适应的能力更为重要，学会境平心造。

讨厌这个人的时候可以几种方式去面对他：

第一，见面还是打招呼。不要以为这个是虚伪的做法，不管你是否讨厌这个人但是最起码此刻这个人是没有做什么让你讨厌的事情的。所以，不妨也打个招呼，深呼吸一下，可能自己也发觉自己没那么讨厌他了。

第二，尽量不直接接触。如果一般没有什么特别重要的事情尽量不去直接面对这个人，万一实在是非他不可的，也可以委托别人帮你转达你的的意思，以免发生不必要的尴尬。

第三，把自己讨厌这个人的理由都写出来，仔细分析一下自己为什么讨厌他，在他身上出现的问题是否也在别人身上出现过，自己到底是因为什么才讨厌他。

第四，把他约出来，然后委婉的告诉他，在哪些方面是你不太认同的，可能他听了以后才恍然大悟，说不定可能成为很好的朋友。

其实人与人之间不是天生就有什么过节，往往是因为误会没有消除而产生的，自己最好能够抱着一种宽容的心态对待别人，这样你自己也会觉得很快乐。

Jong Theng Bachelor Night

After my carnival, go home and have a nap.
Because got next round at night, today is our 班长JongTheng bachelor night.
So decide to go clubbing and crazy crazy~~~wohoo..
I really long time didn't go clubbing since college life.

So we have 3 car pool together from bodoh theng house.
They choosed "RUM JUNGLE".
I never been there before.
Before we reached, we really have long queue at bukit bintang.
Very crowded, and many type of people.
Today is my first nightlife since college indeed.

We reached the entrance, the stupid guard only checked girls IC.
Ma fan dao si...
Wow, the waiter serves us to a table just beside the speakers.
erm... you can imagine lor.
Here is the part of club. With dark skin DJ.

So the alcohol, coke, green tea for mix and ice is start coming.


At first, we all feel like old liao.
Everyone just standing at the table, seeing each other.
This is our first photo inside the club.

Sooner, the crowd is keep coming in.
They all started to get into the environment.
Get high!
You can see from the photo, no need i describe. Haha!
This KL just start to drink, his whole face like BAO GONG already.



Do you see the hand grab ice and put inside people cup?
Haha... at first, we all use the "GIAP".
After a while, all dont care liao... messy...

Come on, yum yum yum seng!!! to bodoh theng.

Who is bodoh theng? Dunno?
Is the middile guy with white t-shirt.

Around 2am, you can see a dead body in this photo? Haha!!
Let u see before and after.

This is the before lor...haha.

Can u see the buluh, the cane in the middle.
When we go off, the buluh is already patah and spoilt by us already.
Kesian, because it is too blockage la...

And i go home with a wet backside shirt.
Because ai.... a big guy take the bottle want to hantam a girl head.
They are almost fighting.
And i try to escape, and the table push, all the cup alcohol, coke...
all phew to my back...
Song ar!!
What a 'memorable' night.
Congratulations to theng anyway!

TA Carnival

Today I go with a gang of friends to a carnival for donation to orphan.
Today is a very very hot day.
We go and buy the coupon and use the coupon to buy thing or play games.
This is the organiser, Katie, who is my friend too.


We are the first batch arrived.
Second batch arrive with my brother-in-law kids.

We walked around and see got apa to buy.
Have t-shirt, souvinier, accesories, games, bags, food, drinks, etc..

Finally we decide to get the 'lollipop towel".
Very kawaii one leh... ^_^

This is Xiao Chou to entertain those children and orphan.
I wish get the balloon too, but paiseh......it for kids.
Not for 'auntie', haha so just forget it.

Ok, we feel hungry and hot.....

Ck buy dunno that food call, "ketupat"??? no...

Amy want to curi makan?? haha...so calvin look...

Eh, we keep going to 'shopping'.

The kids show their talent to play the colours.

Their hard works after an hour. Very pretty oh.

Give them a clap hand =)

And this handsome boy win a high quality notebook with 82 points of games.

Finally around 4pm

Deng deng deng!! Our final winner is Carol!! =D

You see she carry whole box of snacks and take back for her collic lor.

I want!! =D

Hopefully everyone is enjoying in this carnival with a kind-hearted.

Thank you. =D